EXPECTATIONS ALIGNMENT GUIDE
Align expectations before they become performance risk
This is your “anti-ambiguity” tool. Use it to turn vague asks into clear agreements: what success looks like, who decides, what’s fixed, what’s flexible, and what happens when reality hits.
The goal isn’t to sound formal — it’s to stop avoidable blame, rework, and politics.
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When to Use This Guide
- You’ve been given a “vague” task and you can feel the trap: unclear scope, unclear success criteria, unclear deadlines.
- Your manager says “use your judgement” but later judges you against rules they never stated.
- You’re starting a new role / new stakeholder set and you need fast clarity without over-asking.
- You sense shifting priorities or a change in tone and you want to protect your position.
- You’re about to commit to a deadline and you need trade-offs agreed before you take the hit.
Pro Tips
- Ask questions like a strategist, not a novice: calm, direct, and focused on outcomes.
- Never ask ten questions at once. Pick the 2–3 that remove the most risk.
- Write your alignment recap. “If it isn’t written, it isn’t real.”
- Use trade-off language (“scope/standard/timeline”) — it reduces emotion and increases respect.
- Where it’s political: keep your recap factual. No blame. No heat. Just clarity.
Your Expectations Alignment Checklist
I can state the real outcome in one sentence (decision/delivery/alignment/diagnosis), including what “done” means.
I know what is explicitly in scope and what is explicitly out of scope for this piece of work.
Decision rights are clear (who decides, who recommends, who must be consulted, who is informed).
The quality bar is defined (minimum acceptable vs stakeholder-ready polish), ideally with an example.
Success criteria are explicit (2–4 max) and observable, not vague adjectives.
Fixed vs flexible constraints are clear (date, scope, standard, resource) and trade-offs are agreed.
Communication cadence is set (weekly/fortnightly) with a simple update format (Progress/Risks/Decisions).
Escalation rules are agreed (what triggers escalation, who gets pulled in, and how quickly).
Stakeholders are mapped (who can block, what they care about, what proof they need).
Dependencies are explicit (what I’m waiting on, by when, and what happens if it slips).
“Support” is defined (what I can expect from my manager when blockers appear).
I have a written alignment snapshot (short recap) that confirms the agreement without sounding defensive.
Your Alignment Clarity Score
This score reflects how protected you are from ambiguity: scope drift, hidden standards, shifting timelines, unclear decision rights, and surprise stakeholder rejection. A high score means you’re working with explicit agreements. A lower score is not a failure — it’s a signal that the “rules of the game” aren’t written yet.
Your Smart Alignment Summary
Based on your Alignment Clarity Score of 0%
This is a positioning tool. It highlights the exact places ambiguity can be turned into written agreement — which reduces rework, protects your reputation, and keeps you out of political traps.
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